"She" and how to manage anger!

Assalamualaikum everybody! yeah! hahaaa.. today I just want to share with you something that I learn from someone. For me, person like her is very rare to find. I don't know, that's only from my experience. Different people, of course have a different view, right? This person really close with her family, always make people around her laugh and smile even if she get hurt a lot.

For me, only people who have a strong heart can do that, but of course not me! huhuuu..I'm not that strong. But this person very rare for me, hahaaa..don't know from where she come from. hahaaa (of course from Allah, through her parents -_-") Ok! just straight to the point. Errr.. I'm not sure whether it is OK to share this. But the moral of the story is there and I hope she don't mind.

She love to help people until sometimes I get annoyed because I don't like to see other people take her for granted. That's normal for me to feel like that right? because she's my best friend what! huhuuu~ whatever, hahaaa..but, I really learn a lot of thing from her. She is very patient with people around her except me, hahaaa, pity me -_-", hahaaa..just kidding! peace yo!

One thing that I really can't forget, the way she manage her anger. You know how she manage it? It's OK to cry for me but she really awesome because she manage it by making people around her laugh. Wow! for me that's just really extraordinary. Nice one! I think I should practice it, hahaa. There is one word from me to describes her which is "she's COOL", seriously if you know her well. Sory babe, I just assume like I know you well but of course your parents and family knows you well and of course Allah know you more than anyone else even ourself.

I don't want to give too much compliment about her. It's not good actually but I just wanna take it as a positive thing to learn. As we know, in the Hadith said, "if we get angry when we stand up, sit down, when we sit down we still get angry, lay down, but if still didn't calm down, go take a "wudhu'" or take a bath." Besides that, there also other Hadith said that, "when we get angry, just keep silence". When we follow what our Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. said, that much more better because the word come from Allah, our Creator who knows us well. 

Based on the Hadith :

Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: “Apabila salah seorang di antara kamu marah, dan ketika itu ia dalam kedudukan berdiri, maka hendaklah ia duduk. Kerana hal itu akan menghilangkan marahnya. Dan kalau tidak, maka hendaklah ia berbaring.” (Riwayat Muslim)

Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: “Marah itu datangnya daripada syaitan, dan syaitan itu diciptakan daripada api, sedangkan api itu hanya dipadamkan dengan air. Oleh itu apabila salah seorang di antara kamu marah, maka hendaklah ia berwuduk” (Hadis Riwayat Abi Daud) .