How to success : My point of view!

Sometimes we can see and differentiate between people who has a potential to be success and people less potential to success. Yes! only by looking at the behaviour and by using our observation we can differentiate this two types of people.

I love to observe people around me, how their behaviour, how they think, the way they work, they way they talk and communicate with other people and I will analyse it and compare it. And at the end, I will take all the good things about them to practice in my own life.

Sometimes, we already try our best to be the best! we work too much to achieve our target but still the result a bit disappointed, and we fell very envy with person who have a good result. Yeah! just same like me, try to success but still not achieve my target like others.

From this, I started to realize that there's something wrong with me. Maybe the way I work, I think or maybe my attitude itself. So, from my point of view, I think we should follow the success person. Yeah I know that each people have their own ways to study for example. The easiest ways to get an A's in our exam is we follow the student that always get A.

We have our own way to study, but we need to ask people that have a good result to be followed, only that we can improve ourself. So, what I'm doing is, I start to read the student that always get A's behaviour, the way they ask lecturer, the way they talk and do a presentation, the way they study, and the way they communicate and explain to me when I don't understand. I learn from them little by little because not all things that they have, I able to follow, so I just follow the things that I can.

First : Learn from people that one step ahead from us then try to achieve the same result like them by following them.

Second : Aim for the person that two step ahead from us and same like before, try to achieve the same result like them. And follow for the next next target which at the end we will become much more better.

Third : Identify your own bad behaviour that restrict you to success. For example, our thinking, or maybe because we are too lazy, or too negative thinking and maybe we restrict our mind to think more especially something that do not relate with our life. If we don't want to change ourself, don't dream to see different result in the future, the BETTER ONE. 

In conclusion, hahaaaa.. this is only from my point of view and this is the way I try to improve myself. I don't look down on other people even the person below me. NEVER! I always accept people's opinion and try to think more about their opinion, and modified them if needed. I learn from people below and above me. I try to only see positive things about other and learn that positive behaviour. Inshaa Allah, you will be better than before. FIGHTING!!! ^_^