Sunday, January 27, 2013

Maulidur Rasul

24th January 2013, 12 Rabi'ul Awal 1434h. Subhanallah, this day is our prophet Muhammad s.a.w. day, Maulidur Rasul. As we know, the story about Rasulullah s.a.w. who really love and cares about his ummat. I just want to share my feeling about our prophet. This is my true feeling, I just don't know, but this is what happened to me.

I know, not all people really understand or feel the same. Or maybe only me really have a very soft heart because easy to love people. But, just hearing and after reading about Rasulullah s.a.w.'s story (sirah), I fall in love with him. Really really love him. He has a very beautiful manner until it is too hard to describe. I really miss "zaman Nabi" and sometimes I try to imagine how beautiful it is if Rasulullah s.a.w. here with us at this "time". Ya Allah, I miss Rasulullah s.a.w.

Do you know the feeling about Sakaratul Maut? It has been describes in many way (Hadith & Al-Quran) in order for us to imagine how hurt sakaratul maut is? Even Rasulullah s.a.w. also feel "sakarat" before "wafat". But because of his love to his ummat, he keeps on saying "ummati....ummati...ummati" before he wafat because he really cares about us. I used to read from other articles which according to that articles, it says that, even we combines all the love and cares of ummat of Muhammad s.a.w., we still can't compete with our Prophet s.a.w. loves to us. 

Subhanallah....ya Allah, I know, actually there are many people love Rasulullah s.a.w. more than me. Sometimes, I don't know, why, even by hearing his name, I will feel sad and my tears will automatically fall. Seem like I really know him, and really miss him so much. I'm crying without knowing or understand what actually I feel. But what I know is, it is really come from my heart, seem like I really close with Rasulullah s.a.w. Alhamdulillah ya Allah for all this ni'mat. This feeling is your "Rahmat" for me. Alhamdulillah....Alhamdulillah...Alhamdulillah....~ Allahu Akhbar! Allahumma solli 'ala saidina Muhammad.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

"She" and how to manage anger!

Assalamualaikum everybody! yeah! hahaaa.. today I just want to share with you something that I learn from someone. For me, person like her is very rare to find. I don't know, that's only from my experience. Different people, of course have a different view, right? This person really close with her family, always make people around her laugh and smile even if she get hurt a lot.

For me, only people who have a strong heart can do that, but of course not me! huhuuu..I'm not that strong. But this person very rare for me, hahaaa..don't know from where she come from. hahaaa (of course from Allah, through her parents -_-") Ok! just straight to the point. Errr.. I'm not sure whether it is OK to share this. But the moral of the story is there and I hope she don't mind.

She love to help people until sometimes I get annoyed because I don't like to see other people take her for granted. That's normal for me to feel like that right? because she's my best friend what! huhuuu~ whatever, hahaaa..but, I really learn a lot of thing from her. She is very patient with people around her except me, hahaaa, pity me -_-", hahaaa..just kidding! peace yo!

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One thing that I really can't forget, the way she manage her anger. You know how she manage it? It's OK to cry for me but she really awesome because she manage it by making people around her laugh. Wow! for me that's just really extraordinary. Nice one! I think I should practice it, hahaa. There is one word from me to describes her which is "she's COOL", seriously if you know her well. Sory babe, I just assume like I know you well but of course your parents and family knows you well and of course Allah know you more than anyone else even ourself.

I don't want to give too much compliment about her. It's not good actually but I just wanna take it as a positive thing to learn. As we know, in the Hadith said, "if we get angry when we stand up, sit down, when we sit down we still get angry, lay down, but if still didn't calm down, go take a "wudhu'" or take a bath." Besides that, there also other Hadith said that, "when we get angry, just keep silence". When we follow what our Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. said, that much more better because the word come from Allah, our Creator who knows us well. 

Based on the Hadith :

Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: “Apabila salah seorang di antara kamu marah, dan ketika itu ia dalam kedudukan berdiri, maka hendaklah ia duduk. Kerana hal itu akan menghilangkan marahnya. Dan kalau tidak, maka hendaklah ia berbaring.” (Riwayat Muslim)
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: “Marah itu datangnya daripada syaitan, dan syaitan itu diciptakan daripada api, sedangkan api itu hanya dipadamkan dengan air. Oleh itu apabila salah seorang di antara kamu marah, maka hendaklah ia berwuduk” (Hadis Riwayat Abi Daud) .

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

TOMEI : The Case Study !

Yesterday my final exam paper againnnnn... The best things is, I don't remember anything in the book and the very BEST things, all the question that I already remember the answer never come out. Hahahaaaa..STRESS! I took 1/2 hour to finished the 1st question which is the Question 1 of the case study. How about another Q2, Q3, Q4 and Part B another 3 question and I only have another 2 1/2 hour???? 


the case study need a lot of time to think! This is really a nightmare. All the answer in that answer sheet, I just answer based on my knowledge, not in the book, not relate with what I already read, not at all ! Ughhh! I don't know how about to reach my target. This semester I have my own target, I want to get Dean List, but the 1st & 2nd paper show a bad news for me. =[ Ya all depends on You~ 

DOA & TAWAKAL is all I need now and this is the last effort I need to do.

Haaa...! why the title is TOMEI? Do you know TOMEI? the gold company group. Ugh! That the case study. All about their company and I need to pretend like I'm the manager of the company. Ohhhh..I don't mind if it become true, it's OK for me to stress in order to make a decision for that company. But the reality is NOT! hhuuuaaarrgggghhhhh...! 

OK....! I think that's enough to stress out myself. I still have another 3 paper! I need to focus on that. And the next paper is Public Finance. Hopefully this paper is not a nightmare for me. Aamiiinn ya Rabb!!!

Sunday, January 6, 2013

How to success : My point of view!

Sometimes we can see and differentiate between people who has a potential to be success and people less potential to success. Yes! only by looking at the behaviour and by using our observation we can differentiate this two types of people.

I love to observe people around me, how their behaviour, how they think, the way they work, they way they talk and communicate with other people and I will analyse it and compare it. And at the end, I will take all the good things about them to practice in my own life.

Sometimes, we already try our best to be the best! we work too much to achieve our target but still the result a bit disappointed, and we fell very envy with person who have a good result. Yeah! just same like me, try to success but still not achieve my target like others.

From this, I started to realize that there's something wrong with me. Maybe the way I work, I think or maybe my attitude itself. So, from my point of view, I think we should follow the success person. Yeah I know that each people have their own ways to study for example. The easiest ways to get an A's in our exam is we follow the student that always get A.

We have our own way to study, but we need to ask people that have a good result to be followed, only that we can improve ourself. So, what I'm doing is, I start to read the student that always get A's behaviour, the way they ask lecturer, the way they talk and do a presentation, the way they study, and the way they communicate and explain to me when I don't understand. I learn from them little by little because not all things that they have, I able to follow, so I just follow the things that I can.

First : Learn from people that one step ahead from us then try to achieve the same result like them by following them.

Second : Aim for the person that two step ahead from us and same like before, try to achieve the same result like them. And follow for the next next target which at the end we will become much more better.

Third : Identify your own bad behaviour that restrict you to success. For example, our thinking, or maybe because we are too lazy, or too negative thinking and maybe we restrict our mind to think more especially something that do not relate with our life. If we don't want to change ourself, don't dream to see different result in the future, the BETTER ONE. 

In conclusion, hahaaaa.. this is only from my point of view and this is the way I try to improve myself. I don't look down on other people even the person below me. NEVER! I always accept people's opinion and try to think more about their opinion, and modified them if needed. I learn from people below and above me. I try to only see positive things about other and learn that positive behaviour. Inshaa Allah, you will be better than before. FIGHTING!!! ^_^

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Final Exam Fever!

Today is the first day of my final exam paper. Guess what? today is the worst day compared to the other exam paper that I ever sit. The paper should be done within 3 hours but I don't know how I can think that there is another 1 hour. The conclusion is, hahahaaaa... silly me! didn't settle 3 question that the total marks about 19 marks. =(

So, moral of the story, don't be too confident about the time that we have. Maybe we think we still have time but not! As what happened to me just now. Same goes to our life, don't delay the good things and don't ever think we still have many time to live in this world. WE NEVER KNOW when our time to go to meet Allah (our God), so just PREPARED for that time to come. 

But for my cases, we still have time to make "doa" to Allah and tawakal, the result can be change if Allah will, but when the time at the "mahsyar", we have no chance to reverse back all the sins that we already make and it is too late to ask for forgiveness from Allah. Because Allah already give us a lot of time. All of this is a lesson for me in Dunya & Akhirat. Thank you Allah for the lesson, Alhamdulillah! =) 

Keep moving forward!!! stay foolish so that you will always learn! ^_^